The Single Magic Bullet of Dating

In my past couple of years of working as a dating coach, I've noticed a common thing among many men: They all want to find the "single magic bullet" that will change their love lives instantly.

These guys are constantly looking for new information especially for the latest "Holy Grail" of dating - such as the "seven magic words" that they will pierce through the thick armor of a woman's heart and wins her love instantly.

Unfortunately, this "magic bullet" does not exist in real life, and neither does hyped websites that offer a single method. You can't instantly win a woman's heart by just uttering a few words or putting on a dash of the latest pheromone.

CUMULATIVE effect of your actions is MUCH more important than any single "bullet".

In the real world, if you get a BB gun and shoot BB bullets at a window, you're not going to break it. The bullets are just going to bounce off the window. But if you melt a hundred BB bullets together and throw it at a window like a baseball, it's going to crack it open.

Dating is the same. EVERY action you do will either attract a woman towards you or push her away from you.  All your tiny actions may seem very insignificant to you, but when you add them together, they'll determine the amount of success you have with a woman.

Too many men try to "act cocky" or "be funny"...and don't realize that it's the CUMULATIVE EFFORT of their actions that really "get" them women.

When you go after a woman, I want you to be FLEXIBLE. If one technique doesn't work, don't be stubborn and keep pushing it. TRY SOMETHING ELSE. This sound likes common sense, but if I could have a penny for every time a guy tried to use something that wasn't working, I would be a rich man by
now. Not every technique will work for every woman...so you want to make sure you have a VARIETY of tools that you can pull out at anytime.

Lastly, don't forget that the MORE you use a single technique, the LESS effective it will become. If you tell the same joke over and over, it's not going to be funny anymore. Same with dating techniques. If you repeat something
with a woman too much, you will become predictable and BORING.

This is exactly why my Smart Dating Course is a complete "system" with hundreds of different ideas and techniques, because I know from experience that you cannot rely on just one or two things to become an overnight success
with women.

Source: http://www.000relationships.com/towomen

Seduction Through the Funny Bone

Laughter is the Best Medicine: Seduction Through the Funny Bone

Statistically, most women would rather have a guy who's less attractive but funny than a guy who has model good looks but can't make her laugh. Women see humor as a personality trait that indicates a certain degree of intellect. A funny guy has a window into their personality that a more attractive guy with no sense of humor just doesn't have. On top of being an attractive personality trait in a guy, making a girl laugh also has some subtle psychological effects that are like a magic wand when it comes to conversation, flirtation, and seduction.

So what's the magic of laughter? Simply, when you make a girl laugh, for that brief moment, her defenses are lowered and her worries are relaxed. Take, for instance, a typical scene on a Friday night at a club. Any attractive girl is going to be on the defensive and ready to reject the hundred or so guys that will make a move on any given evening. Most of these passes will be "conversational" and try to create some kind of opening through dull and deliberate pick-up lines. Laughter, however, has a dual effect.

First, if you make a girl laugh, you will have actually penetrated the defensive shell. You will have caused her to have an immediate and visceral reaction to something you've said. This is a huge success compared to the rest of the guys who have probably only succeeded in eliciting deadpan disinterest, or even a scowl if they failed miserably. But making her laugh means that, against her will and better judgment, you've made her smile.

Second, causing a girl to laugh moves her focus from her defenses to you. For that moment, she is focused on your joke, your sense of humor. She is, if only for a moment, speechless. This psychological response to laughter means that you have a brief opportunity to fill in the conversational gap with a talking point of your own choosing. You can get her talking and lead the way. Sure, she may still walk away, but the odds are significantly reduced if you can make her laugh.

Making her laugh also has the added benefit of suggesting - if only subconsciously - that you are a good person, and less of a threat than the other "predators" who spend the evening hitting on women. Laughter will leave her with a vaguely positive feeling about you, and this can only serve to help your situation.

Finally, and perhaps most importantly, making her laugh is a hugely positive reflection on your personality. Not only do you have a good personality and can make her feel good, but the club and bar scene won't seem as serious for you. You will seem like you're out to have a good time, not just to meet women. To her, you will seem more relaxed, confident, and less like a desperate guy who is far too eager.

Source: www.000relationships.com/towomen

How Much Of A Man Are You?

Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself:
    1) Do you workout at least 3 times a week?
    2) Do you try to "upgrade" yourself constantly?
    3) Do you try to excel in EVERY area of your life?
    4) Are you adventurous?
    5) Do you participate in competitive sports?
    6) Are you a challenge to women?
    7) Do you treat attractive women like "normal people"?
    8) Do you exhibit self-control and confidence on dates?
    9) Have you ever said "no" to a woman you're VERY attracted to?
    10) Are you comfortable with your own skill?

Source: http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/ebook.html