10 DEADLY Mistakes Guys Make During And After A Breakup

Here’s one of the interesting dating tips I kept in my mailbox.

10 list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is breaking up with you.

1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates

tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.

Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.

2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should

come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No

matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave

you.

3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so

things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to

bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is

still there and your words are not going to mend it.

4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't

care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not

the other way around!)

5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the

more she will ignore you.

6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.

(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up

with me during exam period...") It won't work. It will only

make her DREAD being with you even more.

7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.

Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!

8) Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All

she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you,

they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never

lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation

has to come from WITHIN.

9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You

can't buy her heart back with money.

10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more

you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.

Guys, there’s nothing wrong to follow these steps however  its up to you and always be your self  as always.

Source : http://www.reverseyourbreakup.com