Saturday, August 27, 2011

Conversation Starters part2

Here are some other conversations starters that you might wish to ask.  If any of these questions seem to strike a nerve, quickly move on.  NEVER push an issue.  You might sense that there is more to a topic than she wants to tell you at this point, and that's okay.  The point is to make her feel comfortable and open up to you, NOT to make her feel uncomfortable and tense.

Starter #1:
"Do you have a pet?  What's your favorite kind of pet?"

This should start up a lively conversation, because people LOVE their pets and love talking about them.  If she doesn't have a pet, you might wish to ask, "Really? Why not?"


Conversation Starter #2:

"That's a cool watch/necklace/pair of shoes.  Where did you get it?"

The amount of time women spend preparing for dates is enormous.
 Most women choose everything they wear with careful deliberation.  When you notice the effort they've put in and ask about something they've chosen to wear, they will feel flattered and appreciated ...as well as get to talk about their clothes and accessories, which every girl enjoys.

Conversation Starter #3:

"Have you ever done X?"

It is important to establish common ground on your first date and find some common interests.  By asking her if she's ever done something that you are knowledgeable about or enjoy doing, you can find out what you have in common.  Just don't use the question as a platform to go on and on about your OWN interests--no matter how interested she seems to be.  Women know how to act interested, even if they're not.  Mention your own hobbies, and then move on to finding out more about her.


Conversation Starter #4:

"Do you follow any sports teams?""

This can be a tricky question, because men are notorious for being sports buffs.  Many women don't want to be with a guy who will blow them off when their favorite team is playing on a Saturday afternoon.  However, if she does follow a sports team, you may find that you'll have an instant connection, and you'll be able to surprise her with tickets to her favorite team later down the line.


Conversation Starter #5:

"Have you ever been to Y?"

Everyone likes talking about places they've been.  Ask her if she has ever been to a local hotspot that you enjoy.  Maybe it's a club, a coffee shop, a museum, or even a park or hiking trail.  If she hasn't been there, and you are hitting it off by that point, you can use the question as a springboard for asking her out on a second date!


Good luck!  I hope that these conversation starters give you an edge to sweep the next woman you meet off her feet.  I give you many more chapters on other incredibly important traits that will make women find you extremely attractive.


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