Friday, November 4, 2011

The Single Magic Bullet of Dating

In my past couple of years of working as a dating coach, I've noticed a common thing among many men: They all want to find the "single magic bullet" that will change their love lives instantly.

These guys are constantly looking for new information especially for the latest "Holy Grail" of dating - such as the "seven magic words" that they will pierce through the thick armor of a woman's heart and wins her love instantly.

Unfortunately, this "magic bullet" does not exist in real life, and neither does hyped websites that offer a single method. You can't instantly win a woman's heart by just uttering a few words or putting on a dash of the latest pheromone.

CUMULATIVE effect of your actions is MUCH more important than any single "bullet".

In the real world, if you get a BB gun and shoot BB bullets at a window, you're not going to break it. The bullets are just going to bounce off the window. But if you melt a hundred BB bullets together and throw it at a window like a baseball, it's going to crack it open.

Dating is the same. EVERY action you do will either attract a woman towards you or push her away from you.  All your tiny actions may seem very insignificant to you, but when you add them together, they'll determine the amount of success you have with a woman.

Too many men try to "act cocky" or "be funny"...and don't realize that it's the CUMULATIVE EFFORT of their actions that really "get" them women.

When you go after a woman, I want you to be FLEXIBLE. If one technique doesn't work, don't be stubborn and keep pushing it. TRY SOMETHING ELSE. This sound likes common sense, but if I could have a penny for every time a guy tried to use something that wasn't working, I would be a rich man by
now. Not every technique will work for every woman...so you want to make sure you have a VARIETY of tools that you can pull out at anytime.

Lastly, don't forget that the MORE you use a single technique, the LESS effective it will become. If you tell the same joke over and over, it's not going to be funny anymore. Same with dating techniques. If you repeat something
with a woman too much, you will become predictable and BORING.

This is exactly why my Smart Dating Course is a complete "system" with hundreds of different ideas and techniques, because I know from experience that you cannot rely on just one or two things to become an overnight success
with women.

Source: http://www.000relationships.com/towomen

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