There are only a few reasons why a woman would flake out on a date:
1) Low Attraction: If Tom Cruise had asked her out on a date, would she have flaked out? Probably not. She would probably have prepared for it HOURS in advance, got a new hairdo, and showed up 30 minutes EARLY instead of being half an hour late.
2) She's disorganized: A lot of flaky girls are flaky because they are disorganized. They don't just flake out on guys; they also flake out on their own girlfriends.
3) She's A Natural Flakers: This is worse than having time management skills. Some girls are just natural flakes because of the way they see the world. So many people have let them flake out without any consequences that they don't even see anything wrong with it. Getting a natural flakers to stop flaking on you is as hard as getting a bad driver to tail-gating you. She may stop flaking for a few weeks when the attraction is high. But as soon as she settles down with you, she will start flaking again.
No matter which category she is in, if a woman flakes out on you, it means she either...
1) Doesn't like you that much.
2) Has weak character.
Here's my general rule on flaking: If a woman flakes out on you once, you should call her on her best.
If she flakes out on you a second time, don't ask her out AGAIN until she is begging you to come out.
If she flakes out on you a third time, she should be out of your life - FOREVER!
Here's a little hint: If too many women flake out on you, you need to work on ATTRACTING women BEFORE you ask them out. Don't just talk to a girl for 2 minutes and get her number. TALK to her and FLIRT with her first. If you skip these steps and skip to asking her out right away, you'll just be setting yourself up for failure. You MUST create chemistry and rapport BEFORE you ask for a date.
2) She's disorganized: A lot of flaky girls are flaky because they are disorganized. They don't just flake out on guys; they also flake out on their own girlfriends.
3) She's A Natural Flakers: This is worse than having time management skills. Some girls are just natural flakes because of the way they see the world. So many people have let them flake out without any consequences that they don't even see anything wrong with it. Getting a natural flakers to stop flaking on you is as hard as getting a bad driver to tail-gating you. She may stop flaking for a few weeks when the attraction is high. But as soon as she settles down with you, she will start flaking again.
No matter which category she is in, if a woman flakes out on you, it means she either...
1) Doesn't like you that much.
2) Has weak character.
Here's my general rule on flaking: If a woman flakes out on you once, you should call her on her best.
If she flakes out on you a second time, don't ask her out AGAIN until she is begging you to come out.
If she flakes out on you a third time, she should be out of your life - FOREVER!
Here's a little hint: If too many women flake out on you, you need to work on ATTRACTING women BEFORE you ask them out. Don't just talk to a girl for 2 minutes and get her number. TALK to her and FLIRT with her first. If you skip these steps and skip to asking her out right away, you'll just be setting yourself up for failure. You MUST create chemistry and rapport BEFORE you ask for a date.
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