Are You A Loser?

A lot of people give up on people that are "not as good" in a certain area (be it school, sports, or dating) and label them as losers. Heck, there are even times when we think of OURSELVES as losers in a certain area. How many times have you said "I am not good at sports" or "I just suck at Math"?

Labeling a person (including yourself) as a loser is really the "easy way out". Just because a person needs a little bit of help or motivation doesn't mean he is going to be a failure for life.

I want you to think of pro sports coaches that have cut pro players from their teams, only to see them become super superstars on ANOTHER team. Believe me, this kind of things happen ALL THE TIME in many different fields and disciplines:

    - Michael Jordan got cut from his high school basketball team.

    - Einstein was sent home from school because his teachers thought he was too stupid to learn.

    - Marius was a "loser" with women at one point.

    So here're a gold nuggets of the day:

    Just because you may have failed in the past doesn't mean you will fail in the future!

You are what you are now because of your past. Think about it. If you had taken the time to get this part of your life handled when you were younger, where would you be now? You'd probably be with the girl you want right now! You wouldn't be single. You wouldn't have broken up with your ex. You wouldn't have made the same "dating mistakes" you have made.

In short…If you're not doing too well with your love life right now, it's ONLY because you never took the time and energy to "figure women out" when you were younger!

But just because you're not good with women right now doesn't mean you're doomed for life. Remember that your present will one day become your PAST, and your FUTURE will one day become your PRESENT.

Right now there are two possible futures waiting for you:

If you take action today and REALLY make a commitment to get this part of your life handled, then a few months from now you'll probably be involved in a relationship with the girl of your dream.

But if you continue to sit in front of the computer all day long and don't work on improving your dating skills...PROMISE you that six months from now you'll STILL be sitting here without a girlfriend...

    Listen...

  

YOU control your own future. If there's a little voice inside your head that's shouting, "Yes! I want to be good at dating and meeting women! I want to get this part of my life handled right now," then you should LISTEN TO IT.