I am often asked, "How do I deal with competition from other men?"
My advice is simple and sound.
JUST IGNORE THEM!
Listen. It's how much a girl likes you, NOT the other guys that matters! You can't change how she feels about other guys...so don't bother. This isn't the Dark Ages and you aren't a Caveman. You can't lock your girl you like in a cave and ward off your competitors with an over-sized baseball bat carved out of stone. So instead of worrying about how you can destroy you competition, just focus on thinking about about how you can attract her to YOU. Remember: If she likes you enough, she will brush off the other guys on her own.
Here are a couple of practical scenarios:
Scenario 1) Let's say you're returning from the bathroom at a club when you see a young guy chatting up your girl. What do you do? You walk over and say "Hi" to the guy. Then you shake his hand, say "Nice meeting you", and turn your back on him while continuing your conversation with your girl. That's it. You just be civil to him and then you ignore him completely. If you want to be diplomatic, take your girl by the arm and lead her to another part of the club to get a drink. Then you simply flirt with her and charm her instead of worrying about the other guy.
My advice is simple and sound.
JUST IGNORE THEM!
Listen. It's how much a girl likes you, NOT the other guys that matters! You can't change how she feels about other guys...so don't bother. This isn't the Dark Ages and you aren't a Caveman. You can't lock your girl you like in a cave and ward off your competitors with an over-sized baseball bat carved out of stone. So instead of worrying about how you can destroy you competition, just focus on thinking about about how you can attract her to YOU. Remember: If she likes you enough, she will brush off the other guys on her own.
Here are a couple of practical scenarios:
Scenario 1) Let's say you're returning from the bathroom at a club when you see a young guy chatting up your girl. What do you do? You walk over and say "Hi" to the guy. Then you shake his hand, say "Nice meeting you", and turn your back on him while continuing your conversation with your girl. That's it. You just be civil to him and then you ignore him completely. If you want to be diplomatic, take your girl by the arm and lead her to another part of the club to get a drink. Then you simply flirt with her and charm her instead of worrying about the other guy.
Scenario 2) If your girl is blatantly flirting with more than 1 guy at the club, go mack around with other girls and bring them over so that she can see you flirting with them. She will get rid of the guys FAST before you even lift a finger. Works every time.
Scenario 3) If the girl you like is also seeing another guy, just ignore the issue and don't talk about it at all. Just focus on raising the chemistry between you and her. Be a challenge and attract her to you instead of trying to talk her into choosing you over the other guy.
You'll learn the BIGGER PICTURE and EXACTLY what it takes to create ATTRACTION with
the girl you want.
Source: http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/ebook.html
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