When a woman leaves a man, it's always because of one single reason - a lack of attraction.
It's not because she has found a new man. It's not because she doesn't trust her boyfriend or husband anymore. It's not because she thinks he is "too good for her."
These are all EXCUSES that women use. The REAL reason for any woman to breakup with her lover is due to a LACK of ATTRACTION. Always.
I want you to imagine a balance scale in front of you. On one side is whatever problem your relationship is facing. On the other side is a woman's attraction for you. If the attraction is greater than the negative forces, she'll stay with you. Otherwise, she's leave you in a heartbeat. It's as simple as that.
Using this model, you can see how attraction is ALWAYS the underlying force that makes or breaks a relationship. If the attraction is high...
1) She won't leave you because you've made a tiny mistake. ("Mistakes" are just "excuses" for a woman to breakup with a man!) Even if you do make a mistake, if the attraction is great enough, she will forgive you.
It's not because she has found a new man. It's not because she doesn't trust her boyfriend or husband anymore. It's not because she thinks he is "too good for her."
These are all EXCUSES that women use. The REAL reason for any woman to breakup with her lover is due to a LACK of ATTRACTION. Always.
I want you to imagine a balance scale in front of you. On one side is whatever problem your relationship is facing. On the other side is a woman's attraction for you. If the attraction is greater than the negative forces, she'll stay with you. Otherwise, she's leave you in a heartbeat. It's as simple as that.
Using this model, you can see how attraction is ALWAYS the underlying force that makes or breaks a relationship. If the attraction is high...
1) She won't leave you because you've made a tiny mistake. ("Mistakes" are just "excuses" for a woman to breakup with a man!) Even if you do make a mistake, if the attraction is great enough, she will forgive you.
2) She won't think you're "too good for her."
3) She won't choose her family, culture, or religion over you.
4) She won't fight with you everyday.
And the list goes on and on...
In short, if the attraction is strong, the chances of a woman staying in a relationship with you will be MUCH higher. Heck, if she likes you enough, you won't be able to pry her off with a crowbar. This is EXCATLY why most men are DEAD WRONG when it comes to fixing their relationships. They fight and beg and promise to "change themselves"...when the women they love is really NOT leaving them JUST because of whatever problem the relationship is facing...but because of a lack of attraction.
Let's put it this way:
The "reasons" for the breakup are merely the "symptoms"...the UNDERLYING cause is ALWAYS a lack of attraction, get it?
So...how do you keep the attraction high?
4) She won't fight with you everyday.
And the list goes on and on...
In short, if the attraction is strong, the chances of a woman staying in a relationship with you will be MUCH higher. Heck, if she likes you enough, you won't be able to pry her off with a crowbar. This is EXCATLY why most men are DEAD WRONG when it comes to fixing their relationships. They fight and beg and promise to "change themselves"...when the women they love is really NOT leaving them JUST because of whatever problem the relationship is facing...but because of a lack of attraction.
Let's put it this way:
The "reasons" for the breakup are merely the "symptoms"...the UNDERLYING cause is ALWAYS a lack of attraction, get it?
So...how do you keep the attraction high?
Source: http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/ebook.html
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