I am often asked, "Why do women ask men questions?"
Personally, I think women only ask men questions when they are INTRIGUED by them. (By the way, "intrigued" is womenese for "I'm trying to find out if this guy has potential to be my boyfriend or not!")
Think about it. If she hated you, would she be asking you these questions at all? No, of course not! She wouldn't even be talking to you. She would be trying to AVOID talking to you instead!
But watch out. Your little interview at the first meeting or on the first date is really a double-edged sword. It can work FOR or work AGAINST you. If you give her the "right" answers, she will come closer and like you more. But if you give her the "wrong" answers, it will only push her away.
However, contrary to what most guys think, what makes an answer the "right" or "wrong" answer does NOT depend on the "answer" itself, but rather the ATTITUDE and TONE behind the answer. When a woman asks you a question, she is not just looking for your "answer". She is also looking at HOW you answer her questions - as in how comfortable you are in your own skin.
Personally, I think women only ask men questions when they are INTRIGUED by them. (By the way, "intrigued" is womenese for "I'm trying to find out if this guy has potential to be my boyfriend or not!")
Think about it. If she hated you, would she be asking you these questions at all? No, of course not! She wouldn't even be talking to you. She would be trying to AVOID talking to you instead!
But watch out. Your little interview at the first meeting or on the first date is really a double-edged sword. It can work FOR or work AGAINST you. If you give her the "right" answers, she will come closer and like you more. But if you give her the "wrong" answers, it will only push her away.
However, contrary to what most guys think, what makes an answer the "right" or "wrong" answer does NOT depend on the "answer" itself, but rather the ATTITUDE and TONE behind the answer. When a woman asks you a question, she is not just looking for your "answer". She is also looking at HOW you answer her questions - as in how comfortable you are in your own skin.
Here are a couple of tips on how to "handle" yourself when a woman asks you questions:
1) Don't give her a straight answer every time. Play around.
2) Try to turn the spotlight back onto her and get HER to talk about HERSELF.
3) Don't give her any negative answers. ALWAYS be cheerful.
4) Give her truthful answers about your hobbies and interests, but don't tell her too much about your job, income, or problems.
5) Flirt with her and tease her a lot.
6) Don't be a pussyfoot. Don't try to "appease" her with your answers. Be a real man.
1) Don't give her a straight answer every time. Play around.
2) Try to turn the spotlight back onto her and get HER to talk about HERSELF.
3) Don't give her any negative answers. ALWAYS be cheerful.
4) Give her truthful answers about your hobbies and interests, but don't tell her too much about your job, income, or problems.
5) Flirt with her and tease her a lot.
6) Don't be a pussyfoot. Don't try to "appease" her with your answers. Be a real man.
Source: http://www.datebeautifulwomen.com/ebook.html
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